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Showing posts with label 2013. Show all posts
Showing posts with label 2013. Show all posts

01 October 2013

We made it through September!

I don't know how we did it though. I barely remember 2 days of September!
Hubby started a new job on the first day of school, that led us to some kid care scrambling.
Thankful for the amazing grandparents our kids have, we really could not do it without them!
And this is how life went for our budget, home stuff and all that. 

~Budget~


One more credit card paid off!
It really feels like this goal is achievable for the first time in a long time!
 It probably sounds like we had 300 credit cards. We did have too many, some were just little things, like Old Navy, that I got suckered into for the perks of the extra 20% off, and I realize now that if you don't pay them off right away they are going to make that 20% back in interested plus some. I was young and silly. I still keep the card for the perks but if I can't pay it off that day I don't use it.
We still have a couple cards left to pay off. Our biggest one we used for some school semesters before we got student loans, and Home Depot. Hello new washer.
 After that it will just be loans. Car and student loans. I don't feel nearly as troubled by those as I do credit cards.
 Slow and steady, and not quite Dave Ramsey snowball method. We didn't stick with the smallest first because one has a way higher interest rate and we could take care of it this month so we took a little detour from our original plan. But are jumping right back on to the smallest goes first!

With both of us getting paid just once a month, and around the same time. Budgeting is even more important, because if I make a mistake it's not a 1 week wait for relief, it's a month!

Grocery shopping with cash, and a list after making a meal plan for the entire month, with 2 optional easy swaps is new, and tricky. I've done the grocery shopping but I know we will need produce and milk before payday. Judging what that will cost and how much we will need is going to be the new unknown for us. I have about $50 left for the month after grocery shopping last weekend, hoping that is enough because I only have a cash grocery budget.

Speaking of groceries....
I have a new appreciation for the Orowheat outlet.
If you have one in your area, check it out! Ours isn't close at all, but we were on that part of town so I went in, expecting to not get much.  I was extremely surprised I was able to score Dave's Killer bread for $2.99 a loaf, and sometimes it's $1.00 a loaf! I doubt I will buy bread at the grocery store again. I can go there and stock our freezer with bread for a third of the price.

There are still a ton of DIY things I want to try but they haven't been on the priority list..
Make your own Mozzarella.. Who's done it? Worth it? Harder than it seems?
DIY cream of chicken soup. I need the no MSG and non sodium overload version! Who has one to share?

~Home~
~ Halloween decorations are almost up completely! I'll share soon!
~I move furniture when I am stressed about something.. the living room looks just a wee bit different. I guess that is better than stress eating, right?
I moved our couch closer to the fireplace, it makes our living room smaller, but still plenty big, and I actually think it makes the whole area seem bigger.
~Still purging a little every week. I read this post and I love her thinking. I don't know if we can do it that drastic but I can totally see her point and some days I am ready for that leap more than others.
~Finally got some curtains up in our dining area, so much brighter! Thanks IKEA

~I made a huge huge list of about 100 things we need to do around here, most of them don't take long, so I am trying to get 1 or 2 done a day. Slowly but surely this place will be all perfect, and that will be about the time I have Hubby convinced we should sell. I will share some more on that soon!

~On the hunt for a thrifted end table/side table/night stand something for our bedroom. We used to have a big table/desk on the side and it's been moved to the office. So I need a nightstand.

~Self~
 ~ I don't know why but I have been having the HARDEST time remembering to take my vitamins. I think it has been draining my energy big time.
~I just started my new shift at work and haven't figured out when my gym time will be in all of our schedules.
~Learned some hard lessons, like when people can use something you do or say to their advantage, there is a good chance they will. Sometimes just letting them and the whole situation go is better for you anyway, even if it's not easy.

~Family~
Kids are midway through flag football season and are enjoying it, we are having a great time watching them too, even in the rain and mud!

Our girly was student of the month, again. This is great for her but it's hard to see our oldest be upset/confused when I know he tries a whole lot harder than she does.

We have some big special dates with these kids in October! Legofest and Disney on Ice.

Halloween costumes done, none are homemade and I am trying not to be too disappointed. Knowing that I could have made the time to do it but something else would have had to give. Right now I am not sure there is anything we would be willing to give up for a homemade costume. Work is taking a lot of time right now, it's our busy season and I know this job is really helping us get where we want to be and all it takes is time. It's not forever but for right now I have to trade some time to meet our goals.

Our kids have been amazing at understand the changes we have been making and how it's what's right for all of us even if it's hard sometimes.  I think they are missing pizza night on Friday's but overall they have been pretty good helpers! Teaching them how to read labels at the grocery store and decide what's a better price. Saving vs. spending their allowance. Just little things I can tell the older 2 are understanding and hopefully they will remember when they are in charge of finances larger than their little allowance.


October is my favorite month. I hope we have lots of pumpkin patch (with a Groupon) trips and some super organizing to share along with Fall Cleaning. Since I really didn't do Spring Cleaning this year, it is ON for Fall!

I also want to share my mini organizer soon! It's one of my best friends right now. I haven't been using my Home Management Binder everyday like I did while I was at home all the time. But I have a handy little planner that is making my daily insanity a wee bit better!



 

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05 June 2013

5 months in

And I do not even recognize what life was like when I wrote those first posts about our goals for the year! SO much has changed, some good and some not as well, no time to whine about those!  Staying positive cause I don't like where negativity leads.
  
 
 
Finances
 
My original GOALS are coming along, slowly.
~Coffee has been a little more frequent but not nearly what it was. I try to limit myself to 1 a week.
~Dave Ramsey Snowball plan, still going strong, but with some set backs. We bought a new washer, so a kind of major set back but it will still work out!
~That part time job came and went and now I am working full time, HUGE change but it's what needed to happen.
~Meal planning has been a requirement working away from home. Grocery shopping is a real planned adventure, if it happens at all. I have been trying to just use our stock and pick up the 1 or 2 things we will need to make it work on my lunch break.  And Costco trips every couple weeks for produce and staples.
~Target really misses me I am sure, haven't hardly been!
~I haven't sewn a single thing but I want to! Making the time has not been as easy as I hoped.
~We have been using the library more for audio books, and I have been reading a bunch of the free e-reader books or the .99 ones with a gift card.
 
We were able to pay off  just about $1000 in debt in May.
Not complaining, any step in the right direction is alright with me.
I am pretty sure June is going to be a super month to pay some stuff off!
Home
 
Our original home goals are kind of a wash right now.
~I haven't bettered my HMB, but I have been changing it a lot, it needed to change to match our new lifestyle.  I have added stuff to it but kept all the other sections too as they are still helpful even if not entirely relevant right now.
~I am still eliminating clutter, more than ever!
~Haven't tried any new homemade cleaning products and I don't see that happening anytime soon.  I started using commercial laundry detergent again, because the warranty on our new washer is void with homemade. So I will be back to homemade as soon as the warranty is up.
~Not much stock piling going, but emergency packs are coming along.
 
Self
 
I actually feel pretty good about these ones!
 
~I have been to the gym a bit more, and once baseball is over it will be even more often. Because of that I am closer to my goal weight.
 
~Benefit of the new job, I am for sure put together everyday, and water drinking has been easy!
 
 


 
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01 March 2013

2 Months in!

And I can tell you February was much more productive than January!
In January I got a job, seeing some results from the job, some good and some not so much!

 
The good parts are that we were able to pay off 3 debts so far, nothing huge but they all add up. Hospital bills and brake/tire jobs. Those 3 we took care of were $100/month combined. Adding that $100 into our SNOWBALL will sure make the next ones disappear even faster.
Some days it doesn't feel like it will ever be over. Those days are felt even more by me when it's my 6th day in a row of working overnight <
Working to balance it all out, the first thing to go was weekly planning, and meal plans. Nothing sounds good to me these days so I just try to have a lot of stuff prepped and let everyone else decide. Our house is not nearly as clean as I would usually keep it, but when it comes down to sleep vs. shower scrubbing, sleep is winning every time right now! I know this is not a forever thing so I am just remembering everything has it's time and good choices by us now will mean better situations later.
Even if what I want right now is a NAP!
  
Coffee..  yeah, not doing AS good as I was in January but still not nearly as bad as I was in all of 2012! 2 steps forward 1 step back?
 
Pretty sure it's been 3 weeks since I have seen my flat iron and mascara has been hit or miss, there is just NO fixing these bags with any amount of makeup. Hopefully one day soon my body will get back to a routine and I won't feel as tired everyday.
 
Haven't been to the gym much, been reading like crazy here and there, while trying to fall asleep. Who else cannot fall asleep when they have a huge to do list to do even when you KNOW you need the sleep?!

I am doing an alright job of avoiding Target still!

I haven't organized anything in a couple weeks, I barely remember last Friday!
I am antsy to start the Spring Cleaning though, if I can stay awake long enough!
But on the HUGE  slight chance I don't get to post about it.. check out years past



One way I am decluttering and helping the budget is selling stuff! I joined a group on facebook where we all know each other, or friends of friends so it's not as shady as Craigslist and I have been able to unload a number of things that I didn't want to just donate or try to sell on ebay.

As far as the ME parts.. well I still stink at drinking water, and I haven't been to the gym. But I HAVE had a lot more alone time to think (thanks to the middle of the night job)
That has really helped me with thinking about what relationships I have that aren't good for me and how I am gonna deal.

Pinterest.. if I have time for Pinning I am SLEEPING!

So really February has been a month of not much sleep or vacuuming, no organizing and very very little shopping. The good and bad all balance each other out in different ways. And we still have been doing some fun stuff with the kids so overall I am calling February a WIN.

Do you go over your goals for the year every month? Track by quarter what improvements you have made. New GOOD habits?
Share, so I know I am not the only nutter!

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